With that being said, let's dive into some of the most popular sexual fantasies experienced by both men and women.

1. Dominance - Engaging in power dynamics with a partner, whether in the role of a dominant or submissive, often referred to as "power play" or "dominance and submission," holds a common allure within the realm of sexual fantasies. Power play fantasies encompass a wide spectrum, including scenarios involving issuing and obeying commands, intimate encounters between authority figures and their subordinates, elements of bondage, impact play, and more.

2. Bondage - Bondage is a practice of restraining a person's body or being physically restricted during sexual activities or various forms of kinky play. It often involves the use of items like cuffs, ropes, or other restraints to limit a person's movement or freedom during intimate encounters. Bondage should only be chosen when it is consensual and mutually enjoyable for all partners involved. Safety and consent are fundamental aspects of engaging in bondage or any BDSM activity.

3. Oral Sex - Orgal Sex is on of the most commonly reported fantasies and it is also one of the most frequently practiced sexual act. More than 80% of couples participate in oral sexual activites, with the average person participating in oral sex 5 times per month.

4. Multi-Partner Sex - Approximately 4-5% of people in the United States practice some form of consensual non-monogamy, including polyamory according to a 2014 study. In a 2016 study, 17% reported having ever engaged in such a relationship while 39.9% considered it as an acceptable choice for themselves or others.

5. Anal Sex - Some individuals harbor fantasies of engaging in anal intercourse, whether or not it features prominently in their actual sexual experiences. The allure of engaging in a non-procreative sexual act, akin to the intrigue surrounding oral sex, likely contributes to the fascination. Alicia Sinclair, a sex educator and the founder of b-Vibe, a company specializing in anal sex toys, has noted that anal intercourse holds an intimate quality, adding that it can encompass elements of dominance and submission, which contribute to its allure in the power dynamics of sexual encounters.

6. Sex With A Stranger - Whether your desire is to hook up with someone and have a one night stand through a dating site, an ad, or experience your encounter through a glory hole, there are lots of ways to meet a stranger for an anonymous sexual encounter with no strings attached. Zero strings and zero attachments or obligations can be quite appealing for many people.

Regardless of whether you have shared some of these fantasies or not, there is nothing wrong with fantasizing about sexual acts. In order to take your love life to the next level, being able to experience such fantasies within the mind first is the first step. Always make sure and communicate your needs with your partner to make sure that he or she is on board with exploring similar fantasies and then let go and have fun!